Each person has three different learning styles which affect their life. The reason different learning styles are important is because they affect how we relate to our family, our friends and how well we do in a school.  School caters to just one of those styles.

Everyone has an extraordinary capacity to learn in many different ways.  To understand what a learning style is, just think of how you prefer to learn new things.  Do you like to soak up new information through pictures, sounds, or in some physical way through your feelings or touch?

How about when you recall what you have learned?  Do you see images in your mind, hear the words of what you learned or actually re-create the information in a physical way? Different learning styles do this in very unique ways.

A learning style is simply a preference for the method by which you learn and remember what you learned.

These three different learning styles are: Visual or picture, auditory or hearing, and kinesthetic or tactile.

To find out the different learning styles you prefer click to take the Personal Learning Styles Quiz

The three different learning styles are:

Visual – the visual person thinks in pictures.  He or she has a time-line in their mind and can easily recall things they’ve read by looking up and seeing the material on an inner blackboard in their mind. The visual person likes to write things down, keep an eye on how they look, and will say things like, “I get the picture or talk about their ‘perspective’.


different learning styles Auditory – the auditory person learns best by listening.  This is why they make great conversationalists and can tell stories with the best of them.  An auditory person who has this style is the one of the different learning styles person who can remember what you said five years ago verbatim!



different learning stylesKinesthetic – the kinesthetic or tactile learner likes to move around a lot, loves to touch and play with things, rarely reads directions when putting things together and definitely does not have a time-line in their mind.  Generally, a kinesthetic learner is a kind of “right now” sort of person who is not especially happy “seat sitting” in school or long meetings.  They are at their best when moving or building.



Although some books report as many as 12 or 13 types of intelligences, there are actually only three different learning styles and the others fit into sub-categories of these.

The reason different learning styles affect your life so much is that they are somewhat like your personality, but closer to how you process information.

So, for example if your friend, also your roommate, is a high visual, picture learner, he or she will be neat and organized and do things according to a time-line in their mind.

However, if you are a high kinesthetic roommate, you will tend not to be so organized and be much more impulsive.  While that can be attractive in the beginning, ultimately, unless you understand each other’s different learning styles, you will actually get on each other’s nerves and your relationship as roommates may not fare well.

The good news is, if you take the Learning Styles Quiz before you move in together, you will be able to determine your compatibility better and come to an understanding of each of your strengths and different learning styles.

So, it’s a great idea for everyone to take the Learning Styles Quiz to find out how different learning styles affect your life. Once you take the quiz, share it on to all your friends, your co-workers and and family members.  Suddenly, different learning styles will create a whole new understanding of each other and can actually improve relationships.

Here is How To Identify the 3 learning modalities:

One thing you need to do is listen to the predicates a person uses when talking.  The words people with different learning styles choose simply reflect what is going on in their brain.

Visual Learning Style – “I see. I get the picture.  What is your perspective?”. This learner uses images, much like a movie in their mind as they process new and previously learned information.

Auditory style – “ I hear ya, that rings a bell, that clicks”.  This learner uses sound to process information.

Physical/kinesthetic style – “ I feel, get a grip, I think I grasp the concept, I get it”.  This learner uses “physical words” to demonstrate how they are processing information in their brain.

Pay very close attention to the type of verbs, predicates that your child uses in any learning or testing situation.  You will know which learning style they are choosing to use at that particular time by the descriptive words they use.   For example:  “ I see” means a person is using the visual learning style at that moment.

Here are the characteristics of the different learning styles.

Visual Learning Style


  • Learns best by seeing
  • Neat, orderly
  • Speaks quickly, holds head up, shoulders erect
  • Good long range planners
  • Good spellers
  • Memorizes by strong visual associations
  • Functions best with overall view before proceeding
  • Has trouble remembering verbal instructions unless written down


Auditory Learning Style


  • Learns best through hearing
  • Likes to listen to lectures, music and others talking
  • Good story tellers
  • Talks to self
  • Likes talking more than writing
  • Are easily distracted by noise – generally can’t listen to someone talk on phone and listen to another talk to them at same time
  • Usually has problems with projects involving visualization
  • Likes jokes better than comics


Kinesthetic – Physical Learning Style


  • Learns best by doing and through movement
  • Good athletes
  • Speaks more slowly
  • Responds to physical rewards
  • Memorizes by moving around, walking, etc.
  • Gestures a lot, clutter in work or living space –o.k.
  • Can’t sit still for long periods of time
  • Uses action words when speaking
  • Touches others to get their attention
  • Wants to act things out and like involved games

So, given the characteristics of the different learning styles, it is interesting to see how these different learning styles affect your life.

Remember, all your friends, family and co-workers have different learning styles and the sooner you understand how they process information, the easier your relationships will be.

different learning stylesPat Wyman is America’s Most Trusted Learning Expert, best-selling author and university instructor.  She is the founder of HowToLearn.com and presents on the topic of the effects of different learning styles.