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Vickie Milazzo, author of Wicked Success Is Inside Every Woman, speaks from experience when she says you can achieve wicked success and start living your life again!

As the year 2011 draws to a close many recession-wracked American women feel like it’s just another mile marker in an endurance race going nowhere. Depressing, but true.

We trudge through the week at a dreary job, drive home fretting about money, and spend our evenings robot-walking through the usual haze of homework battles and half-finished chores.

Not exactly passion and fulfillment or anything close to wicked success. Nope, just sheer survival. And the worst part is, most of us have meekly accepted that this is how it has to be right now.

Vickie Milazzo has a message for all us “endurers”: Buck up, girlfriend! You can do a lot more than (barely) get by—and 2012 can be the year you actually start living your life again.

I’m not talking about the kind of new year’s resolution that’s just wishful thinking pasted on top of your old lifestyle,” asserts Milazzo, author of the New York Times bestseller, Wicked Success Is Inside Every Woman (Wicked Success).

“I’m talking about truly changing the way you think about things, breaking old habits, putting some real boundaries in place and tapping into your determination.

 “I’m talking about taking responsibility for your own happiness,” she adds. “Don’t you think if someone was going to swoop in and rescue you it would already have happened?”

Milazzo has earned the right to be a tough talker. In 1982 she faced the reality that she was unhappy with the direction her life had taken. She was a registered nurse with a bachelor’s and master’s degree.

But after six short years of hospital experience, Vickie felt like she was in a dead-end job. She still wanted to be a nurse, but on her own terms.

Today she is the founder and CEO of a multi-million dollar legal nurse consulting education company.

“It is possible to create a life that excites and energizes you,” she says. “But first you have to make a conscious choice to step out of your old, unfulfilling one.

And it’s a choice you have to make over and over again—if you don’t your old patterns will suck you back in.”

wicked successTo achieve what Milazzo calls “Wicked Success” you have to cultivate a new, wickedly resourceful mindset.

She offers nine strategies that can help you do exactly that in 2012:

  • Wicked Success Tip #1: Break the feel-good addiction

Remember, where you focus is where you’ll yield results. And because we like to feel good, we gravitate toward what’s easy instead of what’s productive. We major in minor accomplishments, wasting time surfing the Internet, watching TV, hanging out on Facebook, trying to beat our high score on Angry Birds.

“Here’s a news flash: There’s no real life prize for being great at Angry Birds,” says Milazzo. “It’s time to let go of time-sucking distractions.

The more superficial things you engage in the more superficial your life and accomplishments will be. So the next time you have a break at work or the next time all the kids are out of the house, instead of checking your email, Facebook or texts, use the time to take a step toward achieving one of your goals.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #2:  Stop being the Chief Everything Officer – don’t say “Yes” by default

It’s a hard lesson to learn but in order to be a wicked success, you have to understand that by saying “no” to some things you will have the time and energy to say “yes” to the right things. If you’re feeling overwhelmed and pulled in every direction you won’t be able to lead yourself, much less anyone else.

“Stop committing your energy to every person or situation that demands it,” advises Milazzo. “You need to set your own expectations of what you want to accomplish. Don’t let your career or life take a backseat to everyone else’s. Yes, you have responsibilities to others. But you’ve also got a responsibility to yourself.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #3:  Do something big every day

You eat a whale the same way you eat an apple – one bite at a time. The wickedly successful understand that to accomplish any project you can’t expect to do it all at once.

“This is often why our New Year’s resolutions don’t work out,” notes Milazzo. “You say, ‘I am going to lose 20 pounds!’ And then you implement a new exercise regimen—or heck, just start actually exercising—and after two days of no weight loss you get discouraged.

You aren’t going to achieve wicked success over night. You have to work at it every day. Commit to doing something big every day towards that project or goal and you’ll reach it. Keep working out regularly and slowly but surely you’ll see the results. Find something you can improve and start improving it – one bite, one step, one day at a time.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #4:  Stop hanging with the biggest losers

When you choose to participate in negative behaviors they rub off on you. Think about it this way: If you’re struggling to achieve a goal, you shouldn’t hang out with someone else who is struggling to achieve that same goal. If you want to be great at golf, you don’t hang out with a bad golfer.

“Successful people tend to hang out with other successful people, not with losers who whine about someone else’s success,” says Milazzo. “Stick with the winners. The view from the top is meant to be shared. Find someone who’s already there to share it with, not someone who’s never seen it.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #5:  Expand what you’re willing to believe about yourself

Studies show that women will underestimate their own abilities, judging themselves lower than their skills prove, while men overestimate their abilities, judging themselves more competent. If you see yourself as powerless that’s what you will be. Anytime you find yourself entertaining doubts or trying to limit what you think is possible, remind yourself of your past successes. Let them infuse you with confidence and bolster your resolve.

“Believing you can do it—whatever ‘it’ is—is 90 percent of the win,” assures Milazzo. “When I walked into my first meeting with a potential client, my legs were literally shaking. I forced myself to remember that this attorney needed specialized knowledge that only I—a critical care nurse—could give him. That reminder didn’t banish all of my nervousness, but it did enable me to make the points I wanted with my first client. I learned that when you expand what you’re willing to believe about yourself, you can transform who you are and what your life looks like.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #6:  Don’t wait for conditions to be perfect

Along the way to becoming wickedly successful, you may have to redefine what success looks like for you. Conditions will never be perfect – there will always be something muddying the water, even if it’s just a little muddy.

“The real challenge is accepting that you have to keep on giving your best even when things aren’t perfect,” says Milazzo. “Misguided perfectionism can keep you from stepping out and going for what you want. Perfectionism can also rob you of the enjoyment of experiences. Distinguishing what does and doesn’t require perfection is the hallmark of wickedly successful women.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #7:  Surround yourself with as many successful mentors as possible

Inept coaches don’t fail to help you – they help you to fail. Look around you for others whose work you admire and model yourself after them instead.

“Get out of the rut of your own habits,” advises Milazzo. “Take your advice from people with a proven positive track record. Accepting the leadership of others does not make you less capable of achieving your goals. It actually boosts your abilities. Don’t be afraid to ask for advice. And when you get good advice, don’t be too proud to follow it.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #8:  Regenerate your passion for work

Do you remember why you wanted the career you have? There aren’t many jobs that offer easy hours and easy money, so that probably wasn’t it. It was probably the love you had for the profession whether you get to help people everyday, use your creativity, crunch numbers or whatever your passion is. Tap back into the frame of mind you had when you were just starting out. Ask yourself, What can I do to become passionate about work again?

“When you take this inward look, it is entirely possible you’ll see the path ahead going in an unexpected direction,” says Milazzo. “Your passion might lead you somewhere else. That’s what happened to me when I started my business. I was a registered nurse and I realized I wanted more passion, more joy in the part of my life that sucked up 10 hours every day. That journey led me to pioneer the profession of legal nurse consulting. You’ll know passion when you’ve found it because you’ll feel amazingly engaged and energetic. Desire will become energy and you’ll have plenty of it to create your new life—your real life.”

  • Wicked Success Tip #9:  Take care of yourself first

If you stepped back and looked at your daily routine objectively, as if it were happening to your best friend, what would be your advice? Slow down? Take a few deep breaths? Spend a few moments enjoying one day before another day crashes in with new demands?

“We need to give ourselves such loving advice—and listen to it,” advises Milazzo. “We need to thrive, not just survive. To have healthy, exciting and fulfilling relationships with others, we must first have a healthy, exciting and fulfilling relationship with ourselves. Don’t be so busy taking care of others that you forget to take care of yourself. You can’t be your best self if you’re not your own self.”

“There’s no reason why you can’t have wicked success in 2012.”  

Make it your biggest, boldest, most wickedly successful year yet,” says Milazzo. “But for that to happen you have to match your big goals with some real changes. You have to take on a wickedly successful mindset that doesn’t take ‘no’ or ‘I can’t’ or ‘I’m too tired’ for an answer.”


Vickie MilazzoVickie Milazzo, RN, MSN, JD, is the author of the New York Times bestseller Wicked Success Is Inside Every Woman.  From a shotgun house in New Orleans to owner of a $16-million business, Milazzo shares the innovative success strategies that earned her a place on the Inc. list of Top 10 Entrepreneurs and Inc. Top 5000 Fastest-Growing Companies in America.

Vickie is the owner of Vickie Milazzo Institute, an education company she founded in 1982. Featured in the New York Times as the pioneer of a new profession, she built a professional association of 5,000 members.

Vickie has been featured or profiled in numerous publications, including the New York Times,EntrepreneurHouston ChronicleLadies’ Home JournalTexas Bar JournalLos Angeles TimesPhiladelphia Inquirer, and in more than 220 newspapers.

Visit her website WickedSuccess for more information on how you can experience wicked success!


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