Mother’s¬†Day¬†is fast approaching,¬†and¬†we can all use some tips in good¬†manners, both for others, as well as for family members.
Children’s¬†and¬†Family¬†Manners¬†Expert Elise McVeigh, who is the¬†Manners¬†Expert for¬†the Dallas Morning News, a¬†Manners¬†Expert for Parents.com,¬†and¬†the etiquette Expert for Career Bliss.com, offers sound¬†Mother’s Day Tips¬†for the¬†upcoming holiday for fellow mothers, as well as tips for family¬†members.
Mother’s Day Tips For Mothers:
1) The art of receiving a gift:¬† If your little one has made you an¬†ashtray from the kiln at school, or you have received a gift¬†and¬†you¬†have absolutely no use for it…you still need to accept that gift¬†with open arms. ¬†No matter what you receive for a present, be¬†incredibly gracious¬†and¬†say thank you to anyone.
2) How to deal with which mother to have breakfast, lunch or dinner¬†with on¬†Mother’s¬†Day, all the same¬†day??¬†The key to a successful¬†Mother’s¬†Day¬†is making¬†every female in your¬†family, who is a mom, feel like it is her special¬†day. ¬†This can be¬†tough when there are multiple generations of moms in your family. ¬†See¬†if you can spend the¬†day¬†with your mom¬†and/or grandmothers on the¬†day¬†or the weekend before¬†Mother’s¬†Day. ¬†You can give flowers, gifts or¬†take them out to lunch or dinner the¬†day¬†you see them, or then call¬†them on the actual¬†day. ¬† Or invite all the moms in your life for¬†breakfast or lunch or dinner. ¬†Give any cards¬†and¬†gifts after you eat,¬†and¬†then you can have the¬†day¬†to yourself to spend the¬†day¬†however you¬†want to spend it.¬†
Mother’s Day Tips For The Family:¬†
1) The perfect gift for mom: ¬† ¬†Trying to make a full¬†day¬†of fun¬†and¬†pampering for your wife or mom? ¬†Ask the mom in your life exactly she¬†wants to do. ¬† It could be a¬†day¬†to herself, breakfast in bed, a¬†day¬†of shopping or a¬†day¬†at the spa? ¬†What sounds fun to you or the
children may not be what Mom really likes. ¬† Surprises can be great,¬†but asking every mother in your family what is truly important to her¬†will turn out to be the best¬†Mother’s¬†Day¬†yet.
2) Children¬†and¬†restaurants: Many parents like the idea of sitting¬†down at the dinner table with their children as often as possible.¬†They know it will lay a good foundation for teaching their children¬†good¬†manners. ¬†Unfortunately, when families go out to dinner, children¬†need to be on their best behavior¬†and¬†those¬†manners¬†sometimes go out¬†the window. ¬†Here are some frequent dinnertime distractions¬†
¬†Handing your cell phone or tablet to a 2 year old at a¬†restaurant is a quick fix for some peace¬†and¬†quiet so you can finally¬†have an adult conversation with your spouse. ¬†But the long term effect¬†can be negative when it comes to his/her table¬†manners¬†when out, or at¬†home. ¬†Instead of handing your child something with a screen at a¬†restaurant, try to focus on him¬†and¬†talk to him. If there is more than¬†one child involved, encourage ¬†the children to nicely communicate with¬†each other. ¬† ¬†Technology should not be allowed at the table, period.
4) Fighting with siblings: ¬†Some children cannot seem to get along at¬†the dinner table. ¬†If this is a problem in your family, take back¬†control of the family dynamics at the table. ¬†Make the conversation¬†very structured¬†and¬†controlled by asking each person to share his
favorite part of the¬†day, or the highs¬†and¬†lows of his¬†day. ¬† ¬†If the¬†child speaks a negative comment, give him a warning¬†and¬†the second¬†time, a consequence.
5) Do not like the food served: ¬† It is hard to get a child to focus¬†on eating when it does not like what it on his plate. ¬† Ask the child¬†the eat a small portion of what is one their plate – without making a¬†face. ¬†If you tell a child he/she does not have to try that asparagus
or broccoli, you are setting a bad precedent that could haunt you next¬†time you are out to dinner, or at a friend or relative’s house.¬†¬†
Elise McVeigh‚Äôs background is multi-faceted.¬† A mass communication major at Texas Wesleyan University in Fort Worth, Texas, she started her professional career as the managing editor of a Fort Worth newspaper,¬†The Texas Times.
She then worked as a copyeditor for Practitioners Publishing Company. While working, Elise found a passion for volunteer work, and went into the non-profit field as a fundraiser.
McVeigh spent most of her non-profit career with the American Cancer Society, and then worked for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, and left after having her first son. After son number three, McVeigh pursued her passion as a speaker, and found Elise McVeigh‚Äôs Life Camp. Elise has also returned to newspaper writing, as a weekly guest columnist for¬†The Dallas Morning News Neighborsgo, where thousands read her advice on manners and getting organized.